HOW TO MANAGE BEING SUCCESSFUL CAREER WOMEN & MOTHER IN TIME OF CRISIS...

CAREER WOMAN

I'm Graduate in Medical Course and for maybe 3 or 4 years I was practice my profession but later on i stop and focus on my family and take may children.But still my eagerness to work in their so i convince my husband that i need to go back to work. But before that i when so many training personal development, basic training in hotel management, and travel management and so fort.after a month we travel abroad and try our luck will just a days i got my first job out of my profession, i work as PA i said wow i'm so lucky. We transfer from one country to another then i got immediate work in just a few days applying with good pay of course, and this 2010 crisis around the world is affected mostly of OFW like me. But I decide to resign in my present company to find another opportunity with other company and after a few days i got new job and pay is more bigger than the previous. My believe is even in time of crisis you will get job its depend on your experience, trainings, patience and BELIEVE IN GOD.

EXPERIENCE & TRAININGS

Experience & Training is one of criteria of company they need to evaluate your experience to see if you are fit on the Job, now a days they are not classifying what you Graduate for or either you are BS graduate.But of course if you applying on specific Job like engineer, Doctors, nurses and other they have first to look at the your credentials or degree. But for the Office work and others they are just looking for training & experience that what i have experience, as medical profession, being working on office or desk work i have to get basic training and i use and apply it. from my first job as PA to present Job as Senior Buyer/Procurer.

PATIENCE & encouragement

Sometime we are losing our patience , some people are keep applying but no positive response.But i believe that we have to wait on the right time PATIENCE.

In every i saw so many application/resume come in our office all this people are waiting for a chance to get the job.

Some tip for Applying a new Job:

Reference: http://www.whatithinkabout.com/8-starting-a-new-job-tips/

1. Get To Know Your Coworkers - This is especially important if you are a manager, as you will need the full support of your team to get anything done. You need to spend time with the people you work with, in order to build up the relationship, so that there can be trust when something needs to get done. How can you trust Jim with that really important assignment if you don’t know anything about him? How can your boss give you any responsibility if he doesn’t trust you?

2. Learn Your Coworkers’ Names - Preferably Before You Go To Work - It’s pretty embarrasing when someone walks by you and says, “Hi your_name”, and you just stand there wondering what their name is, and then slowly mutter “Hi”. You can bet this person won’t be very enthusiastic about helping you the next time you need something from him/her. Besides, what if he/she is facing away from you, and you need to speak with them about something? Are you going to tap on their shoulder to get their attention? Or stand there awkwardly until they notice you?

3. Smile - You’re opening a new, exciting chapter to your life, full of opportunities and wonders. You’re not going to visit the dentist. Express your happiness at being in the presence of your coworkers and let them know it’s a joy to be able to work with them.

4. Be Enthusiastic - As a follow up to smiling, look like you’re having fun (why shouldn’t you be?). Be eager to help your coworkers if they need anything. Show your desire to improve whatever you’re working on. Let people know that you are there to help them if they need it. Who would want to deal with you if you’re always like “Meh…”. I was once hired for a position in college precisely because I displayed enthusiastism. The lady who hired me told me that all the other candidates she interviewed were all kind of “bleh” and that I wrote a long and well thought out letter. I replied, “So when do I start?” and she replied, “Tomorrow”.

5. Have Your Papers Ready - Are there some forms that need to be signed? Do you have your id # for the new hire orientation you are attending? While it’s probably not the end of the world to not know your drivers license number when they ask you to fill out the insurance forms, you should show the people you work with that you’re prepared.

6. Dress For Your Job - Make a good first impression, so that people don’t start wondering whether they can rely on you to get something done. Granted, if you’re in a technical type of job, t-shirt & jeans might be just fine. However, if you are the new CEO and you are going to make a presentation to 1000 people, you can bet some of those guys will be annoyed if you’re wearing a t-shirt. It’s a lot like the Seven Mistakes In One Day experience above. In a large group of people, a small % is going to be angry at you for certain mistakes, but they will be very vocal about it, and it might just suck up a large amount of your time and energy.

7. Review Any Relevant Material - Since you’re going to be doing something soon, might as well hit the ground running. It’s hard for any of the other stuff above to work when you’re like “What? Wait, what was that thing again? I sort of remember us talking about it a while back” for a couple of things. At least be familiar with the general areas of what needs to be done, and be prepared to start doing them.

8. Do Your Job, And Do It Well - You were hired to get things done. All that emotional bonding is completely meaningless if you can’t contribute to the welfare of the organization. That’s what you are here for, so show them why they hired you!

BELIEVED IN GOD

I believe that if you put god in all your plan its work.Just in trust everything to him.(GOD)

Reference:http://www.bible-knowledge.com/trust-in-the-lord/

1. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5)
   
2. “Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart.Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass … Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him …” (Psalm 37:4-7)
   
3. “Who walks in darkness and has no light? Let him trust in the name of the Lord and rely upon His God.” (Isaiah 50:10)
   
4. “Those who trust in the Lord are like Mount Zion, which cannot be moved, but abides forever. As the mountains surround Jerusalem, so the Lord surrounds His people from this time forth and forever.” (Psalm 125:1)
   
5. “He trusted in the Lord God of Israel … For he held fast to the Lord; he did not depart from following Him, but kept His commandments … The Lord was with him; he prospered wherever he went.” (2 Kings 18:5-7)
   
6. “You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You. Trust in the Lord forever, for in Yah, the Lord, is everlasting strength.” (Isaiah 26:3)
   
7. “A good man … will not be afraid of evil tidings; his heart is steadfast, trusting in the Lord. His heart is established; he will not be afraid, until he sees his desire upon his enemies.” (Psalm 112:5-8)
   
8. “Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who trusts in Him! Oh, fear the Lord, you His saints! There is no want to those who fear Him … But those who seek the Lord shall not lack any good thing.” (Psalm 34:8-10)
   
9. “He who heeds the word wisely will find good, and whoever trusts in the Lord, happy is he.” (Proverbs 16:20)
   
10. “The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord shall be safe.” (Proverbs 29:25)
    
11. “But he who puts his trust in Me shall possess the land, and shall inherit My holy mountain.” (Isaiah 57:13)
    
12. Thus says the Lord: “Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart departs from the Lord. For he shall be like a shrub in the desert, and shall not see when good comes, but shall inhabit the parched places in the wilderness, in a salt land which is not inhabited.

    Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, and whose hope is the Lord. For he shall be like a tree planted by the waters, which spreads out its roots by the river, and will not fear when heat comes; but her leaf will be green, and will not be anxious in the year of drought, nor will cease from yielding fruit.” (Jeremiah 17:5)

13. “Do not put your trust in princes, nor in a son of man, in whom there is no help … Happy is he who has the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the Lord his God … Who keeps truth forever, who executes justice for the oppressed, who gives food to the hungry.” (Psalm 146:3-7)
    
14. “He who trusts in his riches will fall …” (Proverbs 11:28)
    
15. “Command those who are rich in this present age not to be haughty, nor to trust in uncertain riches but in the living God, who gives us richly all things to enjoy. Let them do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to give, willing to share, storing up for themselves a good foundation for the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life.” (1 Timothy 6:17-19)

Being GOOD MOTHER/Parent

In my experience its so sad that i'm away with my children but i believe, that i'm giving my 100% being a good mother. I can say that I'm a successful mother as well, because as i can see my children are growing up as good person, they understand our situation.Hard?? yes! its very hard being aways with them, not so easy.I just thankful on advance technologies that we have now a todays, i can talk to them everyday. At least, i saw them everyday in that so called video.

The only thing that i can't do is to kiss and hug them.In absent of my present i was always explain to them that we need to at least understand what was happen.

Sometime, even I'm very far from them we still having bonding, we are doing their assignment & project, having little discussion and changing opinion esp. to my daughter which is 14 yrs old.

And to my  13 yrs old son we have discussion  about his puppy love and crushes.

I feel bless because they are growing wonderful children and thanks to god.

And i/we believe that what foundation we build with our children is enough

( foundation to call and relay on in the Name of God)